
Hoping that an ex will sit up and notice it's been years since you spoke to them or were present to be found is a colossal waste of your valuable time. I think your time is better spent focusing on healing and moving forward. I don't want or need them in my life, because I have truly moved on, healed and have better in my life now. Truth be told, I don't want to be visible or findable to any of my exes dumper or dumpee alike. There is no reason on earth and a whole lot of bad ones to remain in touch or visible to an ex.

Breakups happen for a reason-the relationship was broken.Īs to radio silence for years, well yeah they had better do that. I also wonder that about childhood friends and old coworkers.

Man why didn't I dump him and date that cute guy that was my girlfriend's brother instead?" Occasionally I might wonder whatever happened to that boy in high school or so and so that I dated. I will wonder things like, "I hope he got therapy and isn't rotting somewhere in prison." (Abusive ex) More often though thoughts just go towards the angle of "Ugh, I had a relationship like that once.
